We need to stop thinking that our primary duty toward our fellow believers is to critique them. It’s not. Our primary duty is to love them. Paul says we owe a debt of love to each other (Rom. 13:8). Yet it seems we invest far more time in learning than loving.
Honestly evaluate the amount of time you spend acquiring information compared to the amount of time you spend asking God to increase your love for His children.
Francis Chan, Until Unity
My Pondering
Unity with principles
Grace with preferences
Love with all
or said this way,
Love the sinner / Hate the sin. Let love rule.