My take : Some sage, supernatural advice here. Often is contrary to my nature, how about yours?
But it confirms that givers gain. It like the difference between the Sea of Gallilee and the Dead Sea. The one that only receives is the dead. The one that receives and gives is alive and flourishing.
As the late great Zig Ziglar was found of saying, ‘You can have everything in life you want if you help enough others get what they want’.
Time to get to blessing.