This passage is so rich and full of pure wisdom in these 12 verses. And don’t stop there…as v13 digs into wisdom and so forth.
1. Faith
God, Spiritual, and Religion
Commandment #1. It’s not commandment #1 because God needs the control, it’s #1 because He is all that and then some and we need and are best of with all of Him. If by faith, we give Jesus Christ our heart, He will have our back.
God, in His triune yet unified being, created us in His image. We are different than the rest of His vast creation. We have a triune nature. We also have a free will. Let’s put our faith over fear (the false earthly kind). Let us fear God (holy and respectful) with love and honor.
We are spiritual beings living in physical bodies. We are IN the world but should not be OF it. Let’s excel in both simultaneously. This is what true religion is about. It’s the process of converting the spiritual invisibility into practical reality, both personally and corporately.
2. Family
Spouse, Parents, Siblings, Children and other Relatives
Other than our Spouse (at least in my culture), we did not chose our family, God gave us our family by His sovereign will. It’s a truism that we can pick our friends but not our family. But we can pick our attitude and choose our reactions. Let us pick love, namely the storge and agape qualities of love.
God also gave us Christians brothers and sisters in Christ. Spiritual family you might say, a combination of friends and brothers of other mothers.
3. Friends
People, Inter-dependent / Intimate Relationships, Co-workers, Acquaintances & Public
Friends come in all different kinds of degrees: best, close, buds, neighborly, facebook, passersby’s, etc…
Are you generally a friendly, caring and kind person?
4. Fitness
Healthcare, Diet, Sleep, Rest & Exercise
It’s a well know factor that exercise helps the body stay healthy. Regular elevation of our heart beat, sweating, sunshine, deep breathing, mental refreshment, and so forth are healthy. Fitness is an imperative component to life. So let’s control what we can and trust in God with what’s outside of it.
We know that a comprehensive and clean diet leads to good health with moderation and avoiding gluttony. Yet, their is more to food than consumption. It’s an opportunity to be grateful for God’s provision.
Drawing furthermore from Proverbs 3, we can gather the paradox of ‘sound judgement and discernment’ from verse 21 to the confidence in the Lord in verse 21. What an amazing dichotomy of personal discipline coupled with the Lord’s provisional protection. This leads to peak mental and physical fitness when we can truly rest, sleep and restore. Clean living and eating leads to optimum health.
5. Function
Purpose, Career & Work
We see God at work during creation. God gave Adam work to do before the fall. God expects is to work diligently and unto Him. To leave this world a better place, to be a good steward.
This is crux of servant leadership. We go up when we give up for others. We are more likely to get what we want and need when we help others get what they want and needs. Yes, givers gain, sooner or later what goes around does come around.
Wealth for good is not bad. Money is not bad but becomes bad if we love it more than God. We are to love people and use money not the other way around by using people and loving money.
We were created for a purpose. When love God and work for His purpose, it all works for good in some strange and mysterious yet true way.
6. Finance
Money, Income, Giving, Saving & Spending
More awesome wisdom from Proverbs 3. It’s a godly principle that givers gain and when we give to God, He will bless us.
Even God worked 6 days and rested on the 7th. This is good pattern for us, as He so stated.
Solomon suggests that we seek to enjoy life the best we can. That we should make the most of whatever we got and be merry.
Scripture tell us that the “Joy of the LORD is our strength” in Nehemiah.
It is part ‘mind of matter’ and also ‘mind in matter’ but what matters most is what matters to God. When He matters most, when His utmost is our highest, then we are at our zenith.
8. Further Learning
Study, Education and Wisdom
Furthering one’s knowledge, skills and abilities is essential to having a fulfilling life. Learning shouldn’t stop after the formative formal education has been completed.
In today’s rich information age, gaining access to quality teaching on varieties is abundant. The key is be well rounded in generalities (science, law, politics, religion, history, literature, current events) yet becoming a expert in a few things which you are deeply passionate about. Dedicate the time and delve into mastery of subjects in which connect your head to your heart and result in action with your hands.
It has been reported that it takes 10,000 hours / approximately 7 years to master a particular skill / subject. Leaders are readers and we earn when we learn.
With AI tools so readily available, use them as mathematician does a calculator, as a mechanic does with scanning an engine trouble code or an effective executive does with an assistant.
Always remember, it is a tool and not a replacement for critical thinking and decision making.
Furthermore, continuous learning is more than head knowledge, it also includes EQ, as our emotional quotient is also important, if not more so than IQ and KQ. We are wise to study and learn about people and relationships. We need to know thyself first and know others too. We need to learn to forgive, what to forget, what to discern, and how to guide our hearts.
God here is referring to a willful lack of piety, a puffed up prideful independence and arrogance from God’s ways and principles. I believe this carries into the New Testament as well. I is one thing to know knowledge, a head knowledge. It is another thing to resonate with it. Lastly, it is to apply it. All three are important.
Knowledge is great but it’s only powerful when applied properly. This experience is called wisdom. Wisdom takes time so better to get started and disciplined sooner than later.
Conclusion
Rate yourself regularly.
Rate yourself regularly. Request that others who know you well do the same, if you dare.
Give yourself a score 1 (worst) – 5 (best) in each area.
Mark an arrow if you are up ⬆️, down ⬇️ or the same ➡️.
This diagram represents the duality between thinking and doing. Between strategy and tactics. And the relationship of providence between the two that God holds and we need to release and let go at times.
Success is different for each person yet there are certain commonalities.
Isn’t this paradox true for most everything in life?
I think so.
Success is made up of steadily apply principles whose cumulative effect compound. It’s the process of organizing a myriad of tasks, todos and habits into a beautiful piece of art work.
Yes, success is work and craftsmanship and it’s also a state of mind; and attitude of abundance, persistence, determination, mindfulness and more. It’s a winning habitude!
There are several excellent definitions of success. There are worldly one about acquiring lots of high-end stuff and having loads of fun. There isn’t anything innately wrong with fine possessions so long as your possessions don’t possess and dominate you: aka materialism.
John Wooden’s definition is most excellent:
I will give it a stab:
However you define success, I hope you will be all that you can be and that’s enough, the good Lord willing (He is very good). So let’s keep on keeping on…our smile of sweet and sour success!
Do you want to know the ONLY sure method of success, guaranteed? Yes Guaranteed!!!!
Not because I said, but because I know it.
My Pondering
In the above passage we can glean that God’s word, both the written and direct, is essential to our holistic success. To know it is important but not enough as we need to believe it, to fully trust and have confidence in it. We are encouraged to ‘meditate‘ upon the word day and night; to ponder it deeply and consistently.
As important as that also is, we must engage with it in the world, in our lives, in our step by step walk with the Spirit. We must execute and DO IT!
By getting in sync and employing God’s word, we are empowered make our way prosperous. Did you notice it says, “…you will make your way prosperous,”? I can’t but help realize our personal accountability in cooperating with God for our mutual ambition which is transform into Christ’s likeness. Which one one hand seems and is impossible for He is God and we are not. However, as God is for us, in us, and with us then nothing good is impossible for Him.
Furthermore, let’s not miss the BIG promise, a conditional one, which states, “then YOU will have good success.” That’s God’s promise.
So please, no constant woe is me, all doom and gloom believers.
So what is good success from God’s point of view? How about to you?
For me it is Full-Circle Succes. Excelling still more around the Wheel of Life
Full-circle Success is thriving in the world by being of God’s word.
Full-circle Success is living in sync, abiding in the flow-zone, by by love, power and self-control.
Full-circle Success diligently executes my mission while harmonizing a peaceful life around the key areas and principles in my pondering head, through my passionate heart and out from my purposeful handswhere I win and learn around the wheel of life.
To achieve and sustain this FCS (Full-Circle Success) we need to start and end with God’s word and God’s will. We must have a correct and principled worldview.
Z-F (Center)
Z-F is short for Zone-Flow. This is the center of the make. The epitome of being in God’s will. It’s the sense of a high-challenge and high-skill and high-blessing. Time seems to be irrelevant. Concentration and focus are keen. Things run smooth. We operate efficiently and effectively with Unconscious Competence. We sense God’s pleasure and blessing. It’s the synchronicity of our Head, Heart and Hands.
The HHH inner trinitarian circle
HEAD (Blue inner circle)
To maintain FCS we need to use our Heads to think properly and accurately regarding reality and truth. This is one reason we need scripture; to keep us grounded and in touch with our Creator. We need to understand reality. It what we know, or think we know.
HEART (Red inner circle)
Our heart, our emotions and attitude should empower us. They are great gifts when channeled properly. They connect us to God and others. Our souls reside here. It is some science nor AI will ever be able to clone nor understand because it’s from another realm. Our motivation, passions and exuberance come from this place. It is how we feel.
HANDS (Green inner circle)
Hands represent action and engagement. It’s sometimes getting your nails dirty, sweat flowing and our back into a task (literally and/or figuratively). It is execution. No execution. It is what we DO.
CLOSE (but missing Z-Fj
When we fully engage all three toward a legitimate cause, this is when are likely in a Zone-Flow state. When one of the three elements are missing, we are either working in potential just knowing without application, in ritual, auto-pilot habit or from uncontrollable danger wildness.
The PPP Triangle
PURPOSE
Striving to something greater than ourselves is what purpose is about. It is doing what God created and called us for. It’s can be something general in nature or extremely finite. The greater the purpose, the greater our fulfillment and reward.
POWER
Power is the ability to execute and accomplish tasks. Power, like most everything, can be used for good or bad. Without any power, we can’t do anything significant. Power is the drive, ambition, & charge. It the energy between positive / negative, the proton / neutron, and combustion from an engine.
PEACE
Peace is rest, quiet confidence, humility and trust. It’s the calm and neutrality that we all need to recharge and reset,.
The TTT Triangle
TALENT
Talent includes the natural gifts from God. It includes all of our abilities and how have honed those into skills.
TIME
We each have the exact same amount of it every day. The key is how we utilize it. We certainly have influence over our time but it’s God who chose when we were born and should be the one who chooses when we exit this world.
TREASURE
Treasure represents our resources; chiefly our money. Since everything is actually God, the question is how we shall steward our stuff for God’s glory.
The three trinities listed above sit upon the wheel of life.